Depending on your sport a false start can have you disqualified from the race before you get started and this could be the case for some relationships. And jumping too quickly could result in ruining a potential great relationship.
What are the causes for a false start in a race – anxiousness, nervousness, competitiveness and even apprehension? It takes cool nerves to hold your pose until the whistle blows and then you’re off. The rest is up to your conditioning, strength, speed and commitment. Everything practiced is now achievable.
When we find someone we’re attracted to and long to be near it is hard to control our emotions and hold our poise. We may find ourselves jumping the gun with our affections which could lead to complications. We may react nervously and not give our best impression. Anxiety may have us emotionally and mentally unfocused. And we may push too fast fearful another lover may stake claim.
How do we hold our cool when we find someone who excites us so much? Well every racer needs to practice discipline and focus to make sure not to take off to quickly or too slowly.
First we must be in good conditioning. Do we feel good about ourselves, confident so nervousness doesn’t overcome our best intention? Is our interest available and interested?
Having a full understanding of the race helps every athlete be prepared and having an understanding of a love interest will better equip you for your first move. The better you’re prepared; you’ll won’t false or worse yet, get shot in the foot.
